It’s a dreary Tuesday afternoon, in the room next to me I can hear my boyfriend coughing and I hear kids playing outside. Normally my boyfriend wouldn’t be home at this time, but he threw his back out and has been in bed for the last couple of days. Today is my day off, yesterday I went to the rehabilitation centre and tomorrow I will be going as well. But instead of relaxing to recover in between my appointments I am busy cleaning the house, taking care of my boyfriend, walking the dogs and preparing for the holidays. I kind of feel like I have the automatic pilot switch turned on. So I am taking a moment for myself, to gather my thoughts and relax for just a couple of minutes.
The past weekend I had 3 friends stay at my house, for an official-grown-up-sleepover. That might not be a thing for most people, but I love having sleepovers at my house. We all sleep in my living room with loads of blankets, pillows, candy, movies and lots of giggles. This time I had to sleep upstairs in my bedroom as my back hurt too much but I am actually having a couple more sleepovers this month and am actually starting 2018 with a sleepover in my living room. This past year I have really learned the importance of friendships and made some amazing new friends. I haven’t been able to invest as much into some friends as I would have wanted due to all my medical issues this past year, so I love that they supported me all throughout this year and am looking forward to more quality time in 2018.
So as I just said I had 3 friends with me this weekend, we cooked an amazing dinner and dessert, watched tons of weird YouTube video’s, laughed until our bellies hurt and crafted for a couple of hours. I thought of some great free insert ideas because of them so keep your eye out for them. And they surprised me with an amazing gift, an A6 Hobonichi planner for 2018 in the limited Steiff edition. It made me cry and I will be forever grateful!
After my last therapy sessions before the holidays, I want to start preparing for the new year. I still need to think of some goals for 2018, I am thinking of having quarterly or monthly goals next year. I need to fill in my new planner, prepare my new journal insert and prepare my New Year’s Eve party (it is a tiny party for 3 women, 3 dogs and 2 cats) which will mostly include pyjamas, snacks, a cheeseburger pie, craft supplies and gifts. The year 2017 wasn’t my best year ever but the month December has been amazing so far and will be even more fun in the last days of the year.
My Christmas is going to be extremely laid back this year, no fancy meals or clothing. Just nice food, comfy clothing and people I love. And to be honest, I kind of love it like that.
Ok my self-care-moment is over now, I need to start preparing dinner and quickly tidy my craftroom. I am hoping to be back with a full on 2017 recap soon, I love those kind of blogposts!